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Upchuck (profile) wrote,
on 7-18-2002 at 3:11pm
Subject: It was too good, I had to put it someplace else....
Perspective
We live our life through our eyes, our eyes see through our heart, and our heart get's it's reasoning from the brain. The way our brain preseves things is the way in which we live out our life. I don't know how anybody sees this world except for the way I see it. And the way I see it may be totally different from the way you see it, or he sees it, or she sees it, but we'll never know, now will we, because I have nothing to compare it to. Just like you don't know what pleasure is, if you've never had pain, and you'll never know how much sun on a cloudy day can cheer you up, until you don't have any sun at all. And without this, I just have to surmise, that I am the only one, I am and indiviual, I'm the only one to see the world like I do. And that makes me feel lonely, not knowing if you understand what I tell you, if you don't understand how I see, how I feel, how I know you. So we might as well be complete strangers, because I don't know you at all, yet, dispite our world of differences, we have one
common, which will unite us, unite us as a world, as a society, and as human beings, until we cannot see, feel, or hear our fellow people. All I ask is that you understand that I may be ununderstandable, and that maybe, we can find each other on some other level, of which our perspective meets, and we can be free, free to be ourselves unlike anyone knows us, unlike anybody understands us, just to be, just to feel, like us, and to talk like us, and just to be us.

-Michelle
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ThoughtspaceMine

12-24-02 6:06pm

This is why communication between persons, which so often is an attempt to explain the inexplicable, the uncommunicable, is of such deep importance in human relationships. Perhaps it is not so important that our perspectives merge so much as that they overlap, and not the complete and mutual understanding that is key so much as the idea that someone cares enough to seek that overlap and explore it fully, and would then try to comprehend as far as possible that which lies beyond in shadow, plumbing the unseen depths by listening, building a commonality and expanding that overlap not through common experience, or even by common outlook, but by common humanity.

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Upchuck

Re:, 12-25-02 7:25pm

Well, it's a nice thought. Not my writing though. It's my sister's. I just thought it made so much sense at the time.

And I would perscribe to your notion about sharing common humanity by that overlap, but what about human compassion?

Why do we feel sympathy for the stranger? I feel bad for people that have isolated themselves in such a busy world. I don't seek to expand my overlap with them any more than the chance encounter that I see them. Certainly someone caring about you is a good feeling, and them taking time for you lifts up your spirit, but what you are describing is a total relationship. In a perfect world this all would be true, and maybe what you are describing is the pinacle of a soulmate, but I have a hard time believing that simple interest to explore another person can fuel a realtionship forever.

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ThoughtspaceMine

Dilemma, 12-27-02 3:11am

I wrote out my reply to your previous comment; unfortunately, it came to almost a full page of text. Not wishing to put that much information into a column three inches wide, I have posted it in my journal. The rest of the replies will have to wait until a less ridiculous hour of the morning, I'm afraid.

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