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| unbleachedblond (profile) wrote, on 10-5-2003 at 9:58pm | |
| Current mood: frustrated Subject: y must ppl be so frickin stubborn? |
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| life has its fill of ups and downs. everyone has to deal with them. everyone has problems. but its sad when ppl feel the need to resort to uh dire methods because they feel that their life is pointless. i mean, at 18 - they have their entire life ahead of them. sure they've had a few setbacks - but it can change. so pessimistic tho - self-fulfilling prophecy. i try and try to convince them but to no avail. and its just because of a frickin football game. _______: i feel like quittin life unbleached blond: it wont do u any good _______: i dont wanna do anything im so so depressed unbleached blond: dont be depressed unbleached blond: this may sound harsh, but its just a game unbleached blond: u have so much ahead of u _______: no it feels like i worked all that time for nothing unbleached blond: ur gonna be awesome at whatever branch of law u choose to pursue _______: and nothing is infront of me unbleached blond: that is where ur wrong _______: college is a year away unbleached blond: football has taught u endurance _______: ive got a year of nothing _______: nothing unbleached blond: no _______: why try unbleached blond: because unbleached blond: if u dont try then that is when it would be nothing unbleached blond: becuase u will know that u didnt try unbleached blond: whereas if u know u worked ur ass off, then u will know that _______: if u try and fail u feel worse than not tryin unbleached blond: no _______: and the same result unbleached blond: no unbleached blond: its not _______: yes _______: you quit and lose _______: u fight and lose unbleached blond: if u try and fail - u know that u actually attempted _______: ut still lose unbleached blond: so losing sux _______: but u still lose _______: yeah it does unbleached blond: we all lose at some point in our lives unbleached blond: ur jus so used to winning _______: and i will never get homecoming back agian _______: ever unbleached blond: think about schools like crestwood - where they bust their asses and they never win unbleached blond: they suck but it still doesnt mean they dont try _______: well yeah i play for mcc unbleached blond: jus because something pushes u back a step doesnt mean u need to let it ruin ur life unbleached blond: and mcc is NOT perfect unbleached blond: u cant win them all _______: i not use to goin 3-3 _______: and losing homecoming _______: and maybee not makin playoffs _______: yeah after football im gunna be empty _______: yes u can unbleached blond: no u cant unbleached blond: there will always be somebody better than u unbleached blond: and no ur not gunna be empty _______: yeah i am _______: there is gunna be no purpose after football _______: i got nothin to work for unbleached blond: so are u saying that ur life is totally devoted to football and nothing else? unbleached blond: dont u wanna go into law tho? _______: yeah but there is no way to improve my law skills now _______: not untill college unbleached blond: there has got to be somthing to make ur life more fulfilling _______: high school is pointless and my time in it is gunna suck _______: nope unbleached blond: yes it will suck unbleached blond: if u keep that attitude it will _______: so im just gunna become a drunk untill college _______: that way it will go faster unbleached blond: no it wont unbleached blond: itll screw ur life up _______: no it'll make me feel beter unbleached blond: u need to find somehting to do to take up time but drinking wont help _______: yeah it will unbleached blond: find something else to do unbleached blond: no _______: i found something drink unbleached blond: hell join a diff sport or club or play or somehting unbleached blond: no drinking wont help u _______: how about i take a drinking class _______: how to make drinks _______: then drink them unbleached blond: god unbleached blond: damn it ______ listen to me - drinking will not solve ur problems _______: no but it will make me feel better unbleached blond: itll just make u more depressed and then ull drink more _______: ok unbleached blond: itll land u into a downward spiral and when u hit bottom ull realize that all the shit uve been doing doesnt help unbleached blond: and then it is so much harder to maintain life agian unbleached blond: and i dont want to see that happen to u _______: but ill feel better _______: it will cuz ive lost all my drive in life unbleached blond: so plz just find somehting else to do other than drinking unbleached blond: no if u try to drink away all ur problems, then ull lose ur drive in life unbleached blond: ur only 18 - u got a good 80years unbleached blond: u dont wanna screw it up so soon _______: its already gone so at least ill feel good drinkin rather than sober unbleached blond: thats where ur wrong _______: my life is screwed up unbleached blond: no its not _______: no life sucks right now unbleached blond: u think its screwed up jus cuz of football _______: its all downhill unbleached blond: get over it _______: and is only gunna get worse unbleached blond: its a frickin game unbleached blond: there is so much more that u havent experienced _______: its not just football nothin is goin right for me unbleached blond: life has so much more to offer _______: nothing unbleached blond: like what? _______: anything _______: ive done nothing right unbleached blond: like... _______: football hunting school _______: i even got dissed by a girl _______: so ya my life is at bottom _______: rock bottom _______: this is a sign that i should quit life _______: my life has no meaning anymore i just keep feelin worse unbleached blond: ok weve already thoroughly discussed football; hunting - its only bow season. u got nov 30th to kill a deer. school - if u bust ur ass, ull do good. the whole "gettin dissed by a girl" - cmon we all deal wiht that unbleached blond: believe me - ur life is far from rock bottom _______: my life sucks _______: nobody would want to be me im a loser _______: life sucks _______: my life sucks unbleached blond: everyone's life sux occasionally - u just need to learn to get over it and make the most of life - we all have problems...we just need to learn to overcome them _______: i quit ________ signed off at 9:47:31 PM maybe i was to hard on him. but i tried but im just not good when it comes to convincing people to not give up on life. he wont answer his cell but i think he'll be ok. i wish i were trained to be a shrink... |
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jburt1 | 10-05-03 10:31pm Geeze, I know who you're talking about. Yes, they are stubborn, but you tried. I think he'll just have to realize the things you were trying to tell him on his own. |
harris26 | 10-05-03 11:24pm I personally think that you gave the best advice you could give the poor kid...and I think its just sad that he devotes his whole life to football...thats not right if he wants to actually do something with his life he should realize that life is not all about football and that just b/c our football team is 3-3 does not mean that they should commit to drinking...and another thing....we have 3 games left the team just needs to start working like a team and get their act together and win like a team...mayne he should talk to a professional about this...Jill don't bust your ass about it...you gave the best advice a friend could give even if it means being harsh! |