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| unbleachedblond (profile) wrote, on 10-15-2003 at 7:24pm | |
| Current mood: depressed |
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| i kinda always thought that i knew what my "downfalls" were. (example: im brutally honest and opinionated). but ive realized something else that is much worse than the above: i give into peer pressure way too easily. i say no countless times and then i just get tired of saying no, or it gets too repetitive or something so i give in. why do i give in so fast? is it because i dont have the patience or the will-power to stand up for myself? i dont get it. and i dont know how to cure myself of this. because it will continue to cause more and more problems if i dont do somehting about it...:( | |
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Fatman | 10-16-03 9:07am Jill, willpower is not your problem. The reason you give in is because you're not sure of yourself, and after a while of saying no, you begin to wonder if that is really the right answer. You figure that if someone wants to make a point this specifically, they must know what they're talking about. All you need to do is go with your gut feeling. If at first you want to say no, then say "No, and forget it." If they're persistant, say "fuck off!" |