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Kit_katt (profile) wrote,
on 10-27-2002 at 11:52am
Music: Long Slow Beautiful Dance- Rascal Flatts
Subject: Again, What is with the opposite sex?
Oh grrrr, (don't worry this won't be as harsh as the last) I went to a wedding last night and it was great. Besides the fact that i had to shoot down a guy like a hunter shoots down a duck in broad daylight during the middle of hunting season. And don't get me wrong, he seemed very nice and all, but I didn't even know the guy. I had said maybe twenty words to him the entire night. But I guess since he thought I was cute that was enough to base a realationship on. WHY? I mean, why is it that the large magority of males (and I'm saying that so all you other dorks don't get all offended and all) think that looks are everything? I don't get it. My uncle tells me that a realationship is based on three things: physcial apperance, emotional appearance, and spiritual appearance. Do you realize that if a person only bases a realationship on the physical appearance then 2/3 of the realationship are already shot? So why in all of all that is holy in little monkey town would a person go out with someone just because they liked how they looked? I mean, of course that is part of it, but asking me out just because he thought I was cute? I don't think I could be more insulted. But then, I am not an average female (as most of you have figured out) so probably most girls would not have a problem with it. Oh well.
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Lavitz1985

Reply, 10-27-02 1:36pm

Ok first, I agree. You are cute, but that shouldn't make a difference in relationship. Now I'll tell you why it does. Males are obviously driven by their hormones, and since appearence is the first thing someone finds out about a person, it is where the judgements are first made. also it is a proven fact that your physical appearence creates other hormones and when those are brought up, a guys mind locks onto it. He sees a beautiful girl and automatically, without realizing it, thinks that she'd help to continue a strong hereditary line. A guys whole mindset isw almost comletely driven by sex and the urge to reproduce. Don't take it too hard, but please realize that when god made women from men, he gave you almost all of the intelegence. We males run mostly on instinct and hormones.

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