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goobs827 (profile) wrote,
on 11-28-2003 at 10:23am
Current mood: allergic
Subject: thanksgiving and my family
thanksgiving was only semi-disastrous

no it was actually quite lovely with the occasional akwardness and badness.

it was me, mom, dad, my grandpa (dads), grandpas wife, step-grandma's son and his two children, and my dads brother, and oliver the dog, who scared the shit out of my cat i felt so bad for her :(

i had to say grace. i sounded like a flaming idiot i was like "um well we should appreciate that we have the ability to have food" yikes!

food was great, company was surprisingly good. but i felt so bad for my mom because my step-grandma, uncle, and step-uncle and her had a convo about like war and france and all of that and my mom is a major pacifist and theyre not and they were being so mean i tried to defend her but i was like wheres brig when i need her??

sigh, then theres my grandpa. he has prostate cancer thats spread to his bones, and parkinsins disease. he just got the house and layed on the couch with blankets the whole time. hes only 67 too. its so sad. it goes to show you how important your health is. he had so much life...he was a painter, he loved to gamble, travel, go to the track, play tennis, and he has a lot of money..that gives you a great 20 years, but once he lost his health none of that mattered. he was kayacking this past summer, i cant imagine what he'd be doing if he were healthy. but im stopping this is sad.

then my neighbors came over after dinner for drinks and we sat outside in front of the fire..it was was really nice.

my dads side is so disfunctional though...those damn guineas. not disfunctional like my moms side which is screaming at eachother and being really weird..disfunctional like they beat eachother up at family gatherings and threaten to kill eachother...luckily thanksgiving didnt turn out like that.

and tomorrow i have to see my grandmother who contributes much to the disfunction. but thats a whole other story.

id say: successful turkey day...sure beats being at my aunts house in miami with 70 people i dont know (uncle is irish has 7 siblings..u get the picture)

sorry this was so long--blame my family for having a lot of problems

ADVENT 2 DAYS!

ciao<3







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crazyhils44

i understannd, 11-28-03 6:03pm

omgg gabs if u ever want to trade disfunctional fam stories, im ur girl---my thxgiving was relatively uneventful, but i kno what its like to be uncomfortable like that--and i also kno how hard it is to watch someone u love be that sick--hang in there babe--its almost christmas ur faaave!!! yayyy

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goobs827

Re: i understannd, 11-28-03 6:27pm

aww thanks hun..ill definitly take u up on that 1 day! i could always use the help...mwah xoxo

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canthandleit

OhH mY GoSHH!!!, 11-29-03 1:01am

i CAN HARDLY WAIT UNTIL CHRISTMAS!!!!! ahhhhh I FREAKING LOVE THE WAY U HAVE UR JOURNAL NOW!! omg and ur icon=the best thing ever! i love that movie! lol im SoOOo uNBeLiEvABLy ExciTED!!! i love u hun!

i LoVE ChRiStMAs toO!

***CaN't WaiT!!***

uR thE bEsT SwEeTie!

*LoTs oF LoVe <3*

----------ChERi-----------



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goobs827

Re: OhH mY GoSHH!!!, 11-29-03 11:15am

lolol i know that is like the best movie ever! christmas is soooooo soon yay!!!! only like...25 more days ahhhh
mwah love you!

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briggs17

11-29-03 12:58pm

gabs ilu baby! lol ur too cute..i knew you'd need me sooner or later! hehe go pacifists! it's allg ood all families have their ups and downs thats just the way it goes..it's all good..remember, its the most wonderful time of the year babe..
<3always,
briggs

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goobs827

Re:, 11-29-03 5:25pm

lol thanks i wish i had had some briggette inside of me when that argument came up oh well...ahhh christmas yayayayyay hv fun with ure cousins lyl

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dmlxoxo

11-29-03 3:26pm

totally diggin ur new woohu design....its totally christmas-licious!!!!
xoxoxoxo

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goobs827

Re:, 11-29-03 5:24pm

christmaslicious!!! haha great word

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