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| noahfects (profile) wrote, on 12-1-2002 at 9:22pm | |
| Current mood: giddy Music: nofx Subject: lets talk about friend |
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| i was under the impression that friends arepeople who stick together, have fights, and then make up, and then go back to being luvvy duvvy. but whta happens when your friend decides that you always break plans or you dont include her in any of your plans..and as much as you try she just wont liusten and refuses to cooperate...what do you do then? do you just end the relationship? or do you try and fix it...what if your friend doesnt want to fix it?!¿ or your friend says you oviously dont care about me...because you never think of me all you think of is everyone else..or you didnt call me this weekend?! why is it that gurls make so much more of a big deal then guys?!why cant gurls just shut the fuck up and say i wish you wouldnt have broken those plans with me please dont do it again and just end it?!...or is that to much to ask!? god forbid they do...but no instead they start over and over. but finally after 30 min of telling them to stop they finally do and then they start over again with the hey how are you doing stuff!?as if the fight never happened. why is it that this happens? why are gurls so much more melladramatic?..all they do is fight and then make up...and then they go and tell rumors and lies and start talking behind your back...and then you fight again...real friends fight maybe once every few months...but most of the time its over something important...something like..steeling your boyfriend or betraying your trust..but most of the time gurls make u firhgts...yes they make up fights...they will take a little problem and spread it so wide so it becomes a huge problem..and then it escalades and it involoves other people...and pretty soon youv got the gun to your head and your repeting to yourself one little push and this could all be over with...but the truth is that that is not the way out...i have learned that if you kill yourself...you the one little person you are could affect everyone elses life around you...wether they are enemies, friends, familly, or even strangers..when it all comes down to it... everyone cares...so when your in a fight with a friend just stop and think... if i say one more thing i might make it worse...maybe i should be the bigger person, stop cussing, stop talking about stuiped shit and start saying sorry and forgive and forget...if everyone did that then everyones life would be so much better...but i guess the simple things are the hardest things to ask for...so i guess i will get back to the unrealistic life that we live in and just prey that everyone shuts the fuck up and says sorry to each other and starts over again..becasue i know that if everyone did that then the people they are saying sorry to willrealize how cool and how nice and interesting the other person is and then they to would become friends....<3 sabby p.s im sorry kayla for this whole mess i hope that we are still good friends! |
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| Anonymous | 12-02-02 4:55pm i know what your going through because u and me got into a fight and we just ended our friendship instead of solving it so now i know to just let it go!!tiff |