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mudpiegrl (profile) wrote, on 6-28-2004 at 10:39pm | |
i love Q. only recently have i realised what a sweetheart he is...and how much he really cares about people around him...and for that, i have admired him. he shows a certain support that no one else does. and would sit with you in silence while you cried...just to be there. here's proof: This letter applies to people at Neil's party that happened last weekend. I am well aware of the fact that our anti-social behavior might have caused some anger. I assume that nobody's mad at me, but only because I'm single and have no special someone to spend time with. As for Neil, I believe he should have had his priorities in order, and probably Spencer as well (although it seems Jill wasn't too pissed off...) she was occupied. My personal reason for sitting down and playing video games for 11 straight hours is that I already had had a pretty fun conversation, I drove Benton's truck around the block, and got bored playing guitar. There was honestly nothing else to do, so I completely understand where you guys were coming from if/when you talked about being bored. I do look up to Neil, but I believe that he should have played the part of host a little bit better and tended to his guests before joining us in playing a game- especially his girlfriend, who it seemed everyone else noticed was a little bit steamed (and quite a bit bored) except for him. If you have not visited the forums lately, I posted a similar comment to this already. (i'm sending this out, in case nobody bothers to read it anymore.) It is one of my strongest opinions that hosts of parties should never indulge in a single activity with a stagnant group of people for the entire occasion. Doing so alienates certain people. I have been at parties where the hosts were so involved entertaining one or two people that they were unaware that some new guests had arrived. I try to avoid this sort of behavior when I have people over, party or otherwise. Before I go about tooting my own horn, I'll stop myself. funny...he still doesnt see that everyone else was bored....he keeps saying "there was nothing else to do"...but why were there other people doing nothing too...talking is not against all party rules. ahhhhhh he needs to |
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Anonymous | 06-29-04 1:32am I'm glad you have someone like Q-Tip
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sandatthebeach | 06-29-04 2:18am ::hugs:: i'll talk to you tomorrow |