08-24-04 10:23pm

hey hun.

funerals and such arent fun... and everyone has different ways of dealing with the loss of someone they care about. i guess im kinda unsure of what you're entry was asking us to give you advice on.. but just be there for support, and make sure that you YOURSELF get support to. im sorry that something so awful happened in your life and the lives of other people.


it truely does suck.

i'll pray for you dear. and for joe, and his family.

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Re:, 08-25-04 11:34am

thanks so much, erika.. i really appreciate it

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ali, 08-25-04 11:27pm

sweetie i knoe how u feel n u gotta let ur feelings out

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Re: ali, 08-26-04 11:57am

never, ever say you know how i feel.. because you dont.. no one knows how i feel.. i knew i should have made this friends only.. i dont want comments like that!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Re: ali, 08-28-04 2:36pm

maybe she DOES know how you feel...you aren't the only one who's lost somebody.

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Re: Re: Re: ali, 08-29-04 12:27pm

maybe you have no idea what happened and dont know how i truly feel cuz you didnt get to read the friends only entry explaining why i got so pissed? its public as of 10 minutes ago so if you think you know everything you can read it and see if you were right

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Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 08-29-04 5:57pm

by the way, if you're going to leave comments that are gunna be nasty to me, dont leave comments at all... you dont know me, you have no right to tell me how i feel or how other people that i know feel..

nothing like that is appreciated..

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 08-29-04 7:04pm

excuse me! She wasnt being mean to you, just pointing out something. She doesnt have to know you to leave comments, kinda like you didnt know my to put a comment in my journal. She also isnt telling you how you feel, shes just saying that other ppls feel the same way, when I was alive, Ive lost 2 really good friends, and 3 ov my relatives, not to mention a few more people I knew. I didnt loose them when I was young, it was when I was older, and knew how much they ment to me. I myself have almost died, have you ever had a near death experience? If what happened to me happened 15 years before it did, I would have died, so believe me, I think you have it pretty damn good for yourself.

Stevo

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 08-30-04 9:20am

look, i know you and aubrey have a lil somethin somethin going on but its between me and her... its sweet for you to stick up for her, but why i get mad about people saying 'i know how you feel' is that no one ever knows exactly how anyone else feels.. if you knew my personality, you would understand how i feel about that.. Ali knows what i mean by that!! she knows who i am!!! you two have no idea what kind of person I am to be misinterpreting what im saying!!!

and by the way, i've had more than one near death experience, for your information, and i know i have it pretty damn good, but dont think that because i dont update about anything bad besides my friend's father dying, doesnt mean that there isnt shit going on that i cant tell a soul about.. not even Ali or Ashley or Tim.. my three best friends in the entire world.. i've never told a soul about some of the shit that happens to me.. i know my life is great compared to others but you dont have a right to tell me how good my life is.. i know i left a comment in your journal without knowing you.. but geez, it wasnt a nasty one..

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 08-30-04 9:17pm

omg...come on...chill out. this is not a big deal and you shouldn't make it out to be more then it is.

at least you have a good enough of a friend who tries to fucking comfort you when you feel like shit, you know i'd be happy if i were you, a lot of people don't have that.

but, you shouldn't get mad at people for saying that...they're just trying to be nice AND maybe they don't UNDERSTAND how you feel, but they can most certainly imagine it. have you ever fucking thought of that?

also, you can't get mad at people for saying things like this when they don't have access to your friends only entries. it's your fault you don't make them public, therefore it's your fault if they get offended or don't understand things properly.

and, when you say "you don't know me" then why even fucking add friends to your list? it's useless if you're going to tell them that they know nothing about you. don't get me wrong, nobody [besides god] will know as much about you as you do about yourself, but you can't just think you're always right and that nobody's felt the pain of losing somebody close to them. there is somebody in the world who has felt the same as you, and probably knows exactly what you mean...there's somebody with your fucking name too, maybe even hundreds of people...you'd be a lot better off if you just understood that...so stop thinking that you're the only person who has feelings on this earth.

so, sorry for trying to stick up for someone who tried to make you fucking feel better. sorry if it didn't work, but you don't have a right to get upset at them for trying to make you feel better. it's just not cool and you're asking for a fight.

whatever. this is my opinion, take it into consideration, or don't. i don't care.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 08-30-04 9:37pm

ohhh yeah, and to let you on in a little secret...stephen is my best friend...not my boyfriend if that's what you thought.

sorry for the alleged mix-up.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 08-31-04 8:54am

im not taking it into consideration.. once again, you dunno what happened.. shes mad at me too!!! 'so stop thinking you're the only one who has feelings on this earth' you say that no one knows as much about me as god and myself yet you go ahead and tell me what im like... THAT is why i refuse to listen to your comments.. just stay out of it..

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 08-31-04 8:57am

oh by the way, i make my entries public so that she can read them cuz i THOUGHT she was my best friend.. after my convo with her last night i realize i was wrong...

and hunn, you ARENT on my friends list.. so wake up.. if you keep leaving stupid comments you never will be

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 08-31-04 9:16am

come, on...do you REALLY think that I WANT to be on your friends lisT? no.
i was simply saying that you don't need to get pissed at people for misunderstanding you when 1.] they don't know you 2.] if they don't have access to your 'friends only' entries 3.] youre just a bitch for no reason.

do, don't take into consideration what i have to say, i'm most likely a lot wiser then you and i have been through more situations then you can even think...so stop thinking you're gods gift to the world, much less woohu.com.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 09-06-04 9:39am

if you know that you're misunderstanding me why the fuck do you tell me that i think im god's gift to the world and that you're wiser than me and that you've been thru more!!! im not gunna tell you that i've been thru more than you because i have no clue what you've been thru and you shouldnt do the same! im not gunna tell you im wiser than you cuz i dont know how wise you are so i dont have the relevance to make that judgement, and im not going to tell you that you think you're god's gift to the world because i dont fucking know you so stay the hell out of my journal like im trying to stay out of yours and away from you! im only a bitch when people provoke it.. you know you're making me be a bitch.. i dont just go off at people for no fucking reason and if you knew me, which you dont!, you would know that

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ali, 09-06-04 9:40am

oh, and you start giving people impressions about your maturity when you insult others like that and not yourself.. you see, i know im a bitch, but i dont go around pointing it out in other people!

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