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| brownsugar (profile) wrote, on 12-5-2004 at 4:14pm | |
| Music: I believe in a thing called love- the darkness Subject: It's all pretty much psychological. |
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| I think everything is pretty much all psychological. Feelings, emotions all of that. It all goes with how much you let yourself get involved with something. If you hold back because something is labeled "scary' then you will reamin scared to a point where you are really really scared. If you let yourself believe something so much that belief becomes true and those feelings you feel are uncontrollable beyond doubt. That's why the stigma of "crazy" people was created. If you're told your crazy enough times then you just become crazy. I know this sounds farfetched but here, let me make a relation to something most of you know something about. Well, lets take the example if some one says "haha you're funny" to you, you take that as a cue that that person has the same sense of humor, so then you take that one thing thta made everyone crack up and you keep on cracking jokes like those cuz you're loving the attention and then soon you actually become a funny person and you get that label "the funny person." Ok, that's one example, let me take another. Love, well, I'm not saying love is ALL psychological, but there are many forms of psychological love. I am not saying I don't believe in love, all I'm saying is that love CAN be psycological. (The reason I'm clarifying this is because I've gotten into shit before with my view of love and people's ratting off skills). Anyways, I believe love can be psycological because let's take for example a person 1 named Jane Shmane and a Person 2 named Joe Shmoe. Jane Shmane and Joe Shmoe talked a lot and they soon became good friends. Jane never really thought much of Joe, she just thought he was another person, she even made fun of how ugly he was to her friends. Now, Joe was a, now what do you call it? A lady's man. And he has his flirtatious ways about him. One day, Joe and Jane were talking and Joe with his Joeyish ways said as a test "i love you" to Jane. Now, Jane being a typical girl was drawn aback, she wasn't sure what this meant, so she says "i love u too." Now, these seem as harmless words. They're words some people wait for for a lifetime, they're words people don't ever want to hear or they're just three meaningless words to others. To Joe they were meaningless words he said to everyone, to Jane they were lifeturning words. No one had said I love you to Jane..ever. She spent the next weeks, maybe months looming over everytime Joe said I love you to her. She loved it. It always gave her tingling butterflies in her stomach, it was something she could not avoid. She started thinking, am I in love? And, the question is, was she in love?? Or was it just the words "i love you" she was in love with. Was Joe THAT guy who would be her true first love? Or was it just love, or infatuation. It's so hard to tell sometimes. I mean, if you think about it, if the words "You smell like rat shit" were given the same meaning as "I love you" in society then would a girl get butterflies in her stomach everytime a guy said to her "you smell like rat shit" to her. It's strange sometimes, yet touching, how the simple three words "I love you" can make all the difference sometimes. |
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HollishDanishM | Wow, 12-06-04 7:44pm Totally agreed, and that was extremely mind blowing. You're an amazing writer Tina, damn.
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