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brokenmentality (profile) wrote,
on 12-21-2004 at 11:32pm
i never want to have a phone call like that, ever again.

it kills me, it really does. one of my best friends in the world, and look what happend. there's nothing i can do about it, nothing i could do to make it better.

i need to rant for a moment...

do you see what sex does? do you see? can you even begin to grasp the seriousness of it? she gave herself away to a guy who never respected her. never cared about her. and she made an awful mistake this weekend. i warned her about it, i told her it was a bad idea.... going to a hotel, how romantic is that. but she did anyway, and now she's sitting at home heartbroken. it really hits home for me. i know where i stand on sex before marriage, but she thought she did to. and she gave in to temptation and now is regretting it. so bad is she regretting it. it kills me to have to console her and tell her everything will get better. but what about the next month, just praying that she's not pregnant. he was using her for himself, and her being the sweetheart that she is, was completely fooled. i realize that yes, it does take two people... but it really doesnt matter. now i have to pick up the pieces that their mistake has left her in.

it makes me sad. nobody can resist themeselves anymore. everyone is giving in. every day you hear of somebody else.. another couple, another girl pregnant. its almost become a joke, and deffinately the major source of gossip at our school. it makes me sick to think that something so huge is being taken so lightly. people you would never expect.... and its gone. you can never get it back. is that something you're willing to sacrifice.

gahhh.. and now i sound like im preaching.. but im so upset right now. it IS a big deal, and now she realizes that.. too late. its just too late.

dont make that mistake, and if you care at all about the people who care ABOUT you, listen to them when they tell you you're doing something you KNOW is wrong.
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Tabletop

12-22-04 12:29am

If you want to fuck, fuck.
But don't sugarcoat it with bullshit phrases like "making love."
Two naked highschoolers aren't feeling love, they're just fucking.
And there's nothing wrong with that.

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paradox

Re:, 12-22-04 2:05am

^^ Dissagree, to an extent. People get lost in the moment, and get swept away in temptation all the time, and more than half the time they regret it anywayz. At least partially. Which makes something wrong with that.

Erika, I'm sorry to hear about your friend, I dont really know much about the situation, but I hope it gets better, the only advice I can give you in this situation, is bite your lip and dont be "I told you" typa friend, (which your not at all, which is good :)) but just be there for her.. Its all you can do...

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brokenmentality

Re:, 12-22-04 9:30am

if you're going to completely contradict something i stand so strong in, why comment?

and if they're not in love then whats the point of it.
that's an incrediby moronic statement.

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Tuwang

12-22-04 4:44pm

I agree with mitch.

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Tuwang

Re:, 12-22-04 4:45pm

except there is something wrong with that sometimes... I'm not innocent or anything, but He makes a good point.

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brokenmentality

Re: Re:, 12-22-04 11:14pm

although i can see the validity (?-validity.. hmm) of that point.. i can only see it because that's what high school has turned it into. thats the views we've all been morphed to see.

however, i am still one of few who neglect to take that stance. but i appreciate your ermm.. view point. yes thats the word.. and ability to not be so bullheaded when it comes to expressing it.

i believe this is where i end my reply..

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