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| jennapie (profile) wrote, on 1-9-2005 at 1:27pm | |
| Current mood: thoughtful Subject: GIRLS!! YOU HAVE TO READ THIS!! |
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| ok, he's just not into me. It's better for me to let go and move on, then keep on clinging to what I hoped to be rather than what really is. I'm only hurting myself hoping. It really was great tho, at least I found out now, rather than later when something might ACTUALLY of happened and I would have felt worse than I do now. It really is sad, but I'm glad I came to this conclusion on my own, rather than having to make him say it. It still hurts, but I think I'll live. Guys are cowards, they would rather say anything else but the truth to not hurt our feelings, or to avoid the questions that might actually make us understand and not be stuck in the murky grey areas. At least now all the signs have pointed me here and I can move on from this. Hopefully....but I prolly should talk to you still....UGH!! NO I can't do that...that's what I'm talking about, girls always try to continue to put up with so much shit because we want to hold on, we think we have something great, but really we just keep holding on and get disappointed one time after the other, and yet we STILL try to hold on to that one glimmer of something, saying, oh, he's just REALLY busy, he WILL call...NO....busy is just another word for NOT INTERESTED! I mean, how many times have you waited by the phone for them to call because he said he would, but then never does....yeah..and then you're really disappointed? Yeah, don't do that, if he isn't calling, he's not thinking about you. I'm so glad I'm finding this out now, so I don't continue to waste my time. Oh, and if he wants to be just friends, you should get the hint and actually think, oh, he doesn't want a relationship, he really wants to be JUST FRIENDS, he's just not that into me!! Gosh, how was I ever so stupid, I knew the signs long ago, it was just that gay part of being a girl that made me want to hold on to something, that little thing we have about wanting to be needed, but when he doesn't call, you have to pursue, and make plans, and he doesn't..it means he IS NOT INTO YOU! I mean, men can run our country, but we try to convince ourselves that they are scared or something when it comes to asking us out!! HELL NO!!! If they REALLY were interested and were into you, they would have no problem pursuing you and calling you, and if they really cared you wouldn't have to call them, you wouldn't have to do the asking, they would WANT to call you, even amidst their REALLY busy lives. Between speed dial and cell phones there is no way they couldn't call. Sometimes you even call people from your pants pocket without even meaning to. If they really wanted to call you or see you, they would. No if's, and's, or but's about it. I'm not on his mind. HE JUST ISN'T INTO ME!! How could I have actually held on so long....GOSH! Guys are dumb, and we have to deal with them EXACTLY as they are and take things they say EXACTLY as they say them, not how we want them to be, because that's how they REALLY mean them, that's why we get ourselves into these messes, we hope and convince ourselves that things are different, but they arn't! If he doesn't call you for days at a time, you ARN'T on his mind, so STOP TORTURING YOURSELF, thinking that things just came up, if he wanted to talk to you, or if he was interested, he would have NO problem FINDING time and picking up the phone and calling. SO GIRLS, STOP wasting the pretty on someone and go out there and find the one that NEEDS you, and does the pursuing himself, don't go for someone that you have to chase, because it's simple really, THEY ARN'T INTERESTED!! Gosh, good thing I realized this young, it's gonna save me a lot of time in the future. |
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glitterkisses | 01-09-05 4:52pm Aw Jenna, I love you! I really really do. And I think you are smart, and I respect you because you respect yourself and are such a doll. I lvoe you hunny buns *mwuah
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swimfan14 | 01-09-05 6:30pm yeah thats all true and your right and it made me realize something too. |