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pointlessforever (profile) wrote,
on 1-15-2006 at 5:48pm
Subject: Why do women have to deal with all this stuff?
My mom says she thinks I might have Seasonal Affective Disorder since my grades always slide during the second half of the year. She might be right since right now, I have zero interest in school.

On February 7th, I have a doctor's appointment to have a pelvic exam and stuff to get checked out to go on the pill. I actually have no idea what needs checked out or OK'd.

Mom asked if I wanted her to come with me and I said yes. She said she'd tell me how it went so I'd know what to expect.

Now I'm nervous. I know they're going to ask me if I'm sexually active. With my mom there, I don't know what to say. I actually don't know what to say if she isn't. Am I lying if I say no? What if I say yes? She's going to freak out either way.

I don't even know what sexually active means. Does it mean having sex once a week? Once a month? In the past month? In the past three months?

Nick says I should talk to her beforehand and he'd be surprised if she doesn't bring it up. It'd just be embarrassing to both of us if I spring it on her when we're there.

The thing is, I don't know what to say to her.

Because I don't know.
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kthpkc

01-15-06 7:14pm

As the person who examined me so bluntly put it, sexually active means "penis in vagina" when I hesitated at the question.

I don't know what to say to help you out. I had mine done alone because my mom wasn't there, hell she wasn't even rushing down to Kzoo yet. I felt much more comfortable with a female doing the examination, that's for sure.

I'd say go in alone, but you aren't me. At the time I was much more desperate for answers, and I had to do a lot of firsts that day.

Don't worry about it, just give it some time. You still have more than 3 weeks before your appointment.

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