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rayray (profile) wrote,
on 6-9-2007 at 9:03pm
I went with my mom and my aunt to take my grandma some of her things at the adult care home.
The guy told us that while we were gone, she kept asking if he could call one of her daughters because her appointment was over.
It was extremely sad.
And then when we walked in, she kept asking when we were going to take her home.
And she'd start crying as soon as we told her that she had to stay.
She'd ask us why a dozen times.
It was so hard having her ask me that.
Her dimensia is getting worse.
She thinks that she fell this friday, and not last friday.
And doesn't understand why she's in the adult care.

It was seriously heartbreaking.
And then I come home to things out of place, my front door wide open.
I guess Im just frustrated.
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acidtears

06-10-07 6:54pm

When my grandma was put into a home, we went to visit her and my sisters and I had to listen to her tell us how sweet her grand-daughters were, and how we were going to come visit her.

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rayray

Re:, 06-10-07 8:04pm

I guess she had all her stuff packed this morning, and told the lady the she was ready to go home.

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acidtears

Re: Re:, 06-10-07 10:24pm

It's hard, definitely, to watch them go through that. Even harder to envision yourself there.

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rayray

Re: Re: Re:, 06-11-07 5:06pm

This'll be the second time I've watched this.
Third if you count watching my grandfather suffer at home battling cancer.

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acidtears

Re: Re: Re: Re:, 06-12-07 2:41am

It's hard no matter where they are; home or in a care-center. All suffering is hard to watch.

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rayray

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:, 06-12-07 3:17pm

my mom thinks im not entitled to have such a strong opinion about their decision.
but whatever. i seem to be the only one that is going to say anything about it.

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acidtears

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:, 06-12-07 10:00pm

No offense, but what do you expect from your mom?

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