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| angel_bob (profile) wrote, on 3-9-2008 at 3:20am | |
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| Bitches, I am sick and tired of putting all this effort into friendships when you guys aren't doing anything in return. I'm done, people. I am so done. And I am completely over you. I have tried, I have called, I have talked. I have loved, I have hated. I am completely done. Oh, and Andy? I know what you said about me. I know what you have said about Katti. I thought you were an okay person but apparently I was wrong. I never realized you were such an asshole. Ben, way to leave me hanging like you always do. It's always for another woman too. Jessa, I think the way that you treat your marriage and your child is ridiculous. You have basically cut that part of your life out and that "horribly rankles me." It happened, you need to deal with it and admit it instead of completely ignoring three years or you might have some issues in the future. Anyway, I know I'm being a bitch, all judgmental and whatever but I just need to get it all out. |
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michellestar | 03-09-08 10:10am I commend you for having the guts to write this. I've desperately wanted to do things like this in my past but I usually didn't. |
andy | 03-09-08 10:25am I'm curious as to what I've said about you and Katti, since it was always you that hated me. |
andy | 03-09-08 10:25am Oh and I think you should shut the fuck up about things you know nothing about.
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jessa_lynne | 03-09-08 12:17pm When you 'call people out' you are asking for drama and a fight. I'm certain that you are smart enough to know this. I also would hope that you know that you haven't been an active part of my life for nearly a year and a half now. So, given that, your views on how I am living my life may be a bit skewed. Now, granted, a divorce is not the ideal situation, but my married life was not straight from Leave it To Beaver. I don't feel I need to further defend my decision to leave my marriage beyond saying that it was far past a situation where it was possible to 'stay together for the kids'. When I left, I was unemployed (stay at home mom), without a house, a job, or any savings. It worked out better that Marty kept Clementine. The time I lived in the house with Nick was the worst part and I do admit that I rarely saw Clementine. However, this has changed as time has passed and the tension between Marty and I has decreased (you should read between the lines here and understand that I mean over time Marty stopped messing with my visiting rights, but I'm not sure how much of that you knew about or remember). I see Clem every other weekend and I pay for child support. I even pay for Marty's mortgage, but you didn't know that. Clementine has her own bedroom with me and we do fun things, go to concerts, play in the play place, visit family. She knows I'm 'Mommy' and loves me very much. I drive home from Chicago to take her to her doctors and her dentist appointments because Marty won't. I'm taking a 17 credit hour lode and going to school during the summers and between winter courses so I get done as fast as possible so that I can be home and going to grad school in Michigan sooner. After I'm back we are sharing custody 50/50, a week with me, a week with Marty. But you don't know any of this, because you have not asked or spoken to me in real life. I wonder what you are basing you judgments of me on. Is it my Facebook, where I have posted pictures of me and my daughter? Is it my old woohu, where I also talked about her? Is it what you remember from when I lived with Nick? Is it rumors? Or is it conclusions that you jumped to because it is simply easier to condemn a woman who leaves a marriage as a 'child abandoner' than to see that the world is complex and that sometimes the stereotypes are not true? Obviously, I think this was immature and cruel, but for some time now I've been resigned to the fact that people will view me as a monster unless they actually know me. If you talk to my close friends and my family, then the story isn't the one that you are telling. I only hope that you can grow up enough to realize that the only intention of this is to be catty. As far as the "I have called, I have tried" stuff, well, you obviously aren't talking about me, because I don't think we've talked on the phone since the day I moved out of Nick's house. |
angel_bob | Re:, 03-09-08 6:10pm Oh yeah, I know all that. And this was just to get it off my chest, nothing more. |
| jessa_lynne | Re: Re:, 03-09-08 6:38pm It seems to me that a far more grown up and brave way of dealing with your judgments on me would be to simply discuss it with me instead of drawing attention to yourself by using a public forum and inviting other people into it. Any if you knew anything that I had said in my comment, why would you say what you did?
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angel_bob | Re: Re: Re:, 03-10-08 12:12am It was the Jessa Marsh bio that rankled me.
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| jessa_lynne | Re: Re: Re: Re:, 03-10-08 12:21am The website is a professional thing. Would you mention cohabitating with your boyfriend on a resume? No, but that doesn't imply shame.
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| Anonymous | 03-11-08 5:07pm "Ben, way to leave me hanging like you always do. It's always for another woman too." Don't really know what you mean by this.
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