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joslyn_julia (profile) wrote,
on 6-24-2010 at 8:51am
ya know considering that I am 23 I should not be having petty arguments with my mom. I am so sick of being blamed for her finances I could just smack her.

I as an only child, should be able to expect some help with buying clothes. Oh wait... I had to buy my own shit in high school, why the fuck would I get help now.

I am fed up with not having appropriate clothes for the season and even more annoyed that I am constantly having to get clothes that my friends are getting rid of, and then keeping them forever, just because I constantly am unable to get any clothes for myself. I really wish I had the gumption in high school that I have now... but it's prolly good I didn't, or I would have been in a lot of fights.

I am not spoiled! I have to work for what I want/ need. And considering that everyone thinks my parents are rich just because we have a jewelry store... wake the fuck up and smell the roses. The only people who seem to buy gold these days are place who are selling it to china. And people buying 9karat or less stamped goods coming from china with.... *drumroll please*... unregulated markings!
People keep buying crap that is marked totally wrong. What happened to trade regulation, and pride in work? What happened to honesty? We are living in an era where it is so difficult to find any of the things we ought to have. Decency is gone... for the most part. I am sick of living in a world where it feels like I am the only one who cares.

What's worse is Mike doesn't even want to understand. I feel totally fucking alone. I should probably be used to that by now... since it's just about all i've felt for the last 10 years.
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.j.e.s.s.

06-24-10 9:04pm

i dont mean to sound rude but it probably is going to anyway but i just have to say it anyway because it irks me...

why should you expect some help with buying clothes if you are 23? And further more.... aren't you married?

Your parents aren't responsible for you anymore. That ended when you were 18 regardless of whether or not they helped you when you were younger than that.

I'm not trying to personally attack you I just don't understand why you would expect their help at age 23?

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joslyn_julia

Re: , 07-06-10 1:42pm

I don't take it personal... In fact I get where you are coming from, I just wish that I could get help when I need it from my parents.

And I know that it is easy to assume that because I'm married that I should be totally responsible for myself, but my husband just started working after months of being unemployed, and we are just getting back on our feet. It is a little hard to buy new things if you are finally getting debt unburried, especially when I am still in school.

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.j.e.s.s.

Re: Re: , 07-06-10 8:40pm

yeah i understand that. and your situation makes more sense to me. i guess i just get fed up with the kind of people who dont even try and expect things to be handed to them by their parents.

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