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Lizzy (profile) wrote, on 3-17-2003 at 8:15pm | |
Current mood: distressed Music: Asian Pride "Got Rice" Subject: Alright I've had it once and for all |
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Okay. All this drama that's been surrounding me this year with bryan, my friends etc needs to stop. It isn't even about anyone else anymore, but about myself. I have changed so much this year. And ya know what? I have def. changed for the better. I'm a much more confident happier person this year. I have more friends, I have a wonderful boyfriend, and basically I like the way I am now. People change, not just me. Friendships and relationships change too. Are you still best friends with your 2nd grade bf? In most cases, no. The reasons are that people, environments, frienships are CONSTANTLY changing. If you have a problem with a friendship, with me or someone else, tell ME. What's the point of telling someone else? People seem to be telling me that I don't spend as much time with my old friends. I get the feeling people are blaming me or Bryan. Well let's see, have u ever heard of the expression it takes 2 to tango? Well it also takes two to retain a friendship. I'm so sick of being the one blamed all the time. Not only have I gained new people in my life, but so have my friends! Its not like they're constantly inviting me places and I'm saying no because I already have plans. I'm not invited to some things. And also I don't regret changing the people around me this year because some of them weren't as great to me to begin with. Maybe I'm supposed to be "sweet, wonderful Liz" but I'm not. Why should i hang around people that are constantly criticizing me and putting me down? Do YOU like to hang out with people like that? NO, i don't think you do. I'm not saying everyone blames me 4 things, I'm not saying I'm not part of the reason for my changed relationships, I'm not blaming anyone, mad at anyone I'm just setting the record straight that these things are not all my fault. Thank you for listening to my rant. No one fight with me about this or comment...I just wanted to give my opinion and if u don't agree....DON'T TELL ME! |
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nettyness | 03-18-03 4:50pm I know you said not to comment, but I just want to commend you on your good usage of a common saying(the tango thing). McStoopid would be proud! |
Lizzy | Re:, 03-18-03 6:35pm thanks netty :) wanna do something friday maybe? |
nettyness | Re: Re:, 03-18-03 8:03pm Yeah, that'll ease the boredom ALOT! call me sometime, mi telefono number is, well, i think you know, but right, i don't want psycho people stalking me o_O. so CALL!!!!!!! |
cabinetofcuriosities | 03-19-03 8:20pm cha cha cha! ...i feel horrible now...why i dunno. bryan's cool. that hypothetical situation was "fked" up. i sowwy people blame you. id ont blame you....too much. hehehe. please dont get mad.. |