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2003 4 December :: 10.35 pm
i've been sick, which is why there has been no update. i am still sick and i want it to go away. its absolutely horrible.
i'm waiting on 4 college desicions, then i can finally make up my mind. i so want to go and leave this place. but all i can do is wait.
sickness hurts so i am leaving.
<3 always and keep on rockin.
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2003 28 November :: 9.06 pm
in order to extract my revenge... last night i got drunk without him. i did the chugging and the shots that he despises, just to get him back for lying... but then i realized... it is not him whom i am hurting... it is only myself... so i regret last night now. and i realize that i can't be mad at him because i really do love him... absolutely. so now that he's gone for the evening... i can loathe in my stupidity and hang my head because i love him and he does not love me in return.
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2003 27 November :: 6.02 pm
last night was absolutely terrible.
6:30 - dustin ims me and tells me to go to wild country with everyone. i wanted to.
6:45 - left for basketball game
8:00 - darren calls and asks for a ride to wild country if we go.
10:00 - get back from basketball game
10:30 - call darren and ask if he still need a ride. he doesn't.
10:35 - dustin calls and says leslie and i should go to wc.
10:36 - jayme calls and wants to ride around. we tell jayme we are going to wild country. she calls roger to ask if she can go. he says no. we decide to go without her.
10:40 - darren calls and says wild country is no fun tonight, don't come. we ask what he is doing now, he says probly going home.
11:00 - jayme calls and wants to go out.
12:00 - leave jayme. go to dennys to get food.
1:00 - leave dennys and go back through staunton.
1:30 - leaving staunton we see darren's car still parked at rogers house... meaning... they didn't come home like he said.
2:00 - go by dennis and dan's to see if they decided to go there. no one is there.
2:30 - go back through staunton. his car is still at roger's.
3:00 - go home very upset that a friend would lie to me.
maybe it doesn't sound so bad... but it hurt me... it really did.
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2003 23 November :: 7.35 pm
:: Music: seventy times 7
last night...
i went to the party. it was fun. everyone was there. nothing bad happened, actually it was better than usual. i got to talk to a lot of cool people. the only semi-bad thing was that when i got in my car i was seriously scared... i'd never driven when i was that dizzy... oh well, i made it home.. and next time i'll be sure to sober up before i hit the road.
then leslie called me to tell me about how some chicks from my school were talking shit on me. she hasn't told me what they said yet... but like i give a damn... i'm sorry if i'm having a good time. but things are going descent right now, i've met a lot of cool girls and guys and i am happy now with my friends.
whatever.
love always and rock it.
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2003 21 November :: 10.02 pm
tonight tonight... my best friend is coming home. she doesn't like the friends i have here. i was worried about what was going on tonight because i was afraid i couldn't turn down an invitation to go w/ him. but he went to bed. he said he wasn't going out tonight. and tomorrow... i am going to the party... and hopefully he will be there and i can show him that i can still be a good little girl... i can still be good for him.
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2003 20 November :: 10.38 pm
:: Music: "carousel" - blink 182
sorry so emo...
so i've been thinking... there are a few ways i could go with this, but its gonna have to be soon... i'm talking before february... which may seem like a hella long time... but its not. its not at all.
okay... i don't feel like typing this now... but i will later. and i'll update.... so sorry.
<3 always.
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2003 19 November :: 3.57 pm
:: Music: "wheel" - john mayer
so we've been nerds lately. talking about our weddings and our kids and our futures like something good is actually going to happen. but i will tell you about it anyway... because it puts me in a good mood... and we all know there aint nothing wrong with that...
so... i will get married when i am 22. he will be 25. it will be october... i'd say around the 17th or so... whichever is a saturday. leslie will be my maid of honor. the dresses will be deep red... like wine.. with champagne colored sashes and veils.
we will live in the country, in a small but nice house. i will work as a freelance architect/stay at home mom once we have kids. our first child, hopefully a boy, we will have 2 years after we are married. and then a girl 4 years after that.
everything would be so perfect. everything would be so nice...
everything would be so exactly opposite of everything i want. but i'd give up everything for him... and i'd still be happy.
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2003 19 November :: 12.11 am
:: Music: "ghetto cowboy" - bone thugs n harmony.... fucking right..
so thats just it. this weekend... i'm gonna get drunk... who knows what i will do then. but im gonna have a good time... holla if ya know what!
<3 always and keep rockin.!
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2003 17 November :: 11.14 pm
shy is out. i'm through with worrying about what people think of me. this weekend in that car made me realize that there are a hell of a lot more important things than stupid crushes and worrying what other people think. things happen... they happen for reasons... numb is the new deep. done with the old me.
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2003 16 November :: 8.06 pm
:: Music: "lovesong" - the cure
Friday night... friday night could have been great... it so could have been. we went to wild country. he was supposed to ride there with me... which he did.. but then we had to take an extra passenger... it was so dumb. i really don't like the other kid. he is so annoying... so then we get there and everyone is just getting drunk. they're not even dancing. i was standing right by him and he never even asked me to dance... but dan did. i did dance with dan. he is so tall. so it was essentially gay... i just wish he would have asked me to dance... i should have asked him, but i figured that if he wanted to dance with me he would have asked. that night was just pretty bad.
saturday... saturday... after getting home at 2:30 i had to get up at 8:30. i got home at 11, went to the sub shop to get lunch and then went straight to stlcop to watch a basketball game. then later on we went to joe and amanda's house to help them move in where i succeeded to get drunk again. but its alright. he was there. but he never talks. i just wish he would talk to me... he never does and it makes me so sad... because he seems to have plenty to say to everyone else. oh well... i guess... unfortunately it happened for a reason... i just wish we could go back to the days when we were innocent.
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2003 13 November :: 4.21 pm
Setting: Cluttered desk. cd cases and booklets and a half bowl of cereal without milk. Something corporate blares through the speakers.
This is my life during the week. pleasantly plain and uneventful.
This is me in this room. Plain pink shirt and blue jeans. Plain straight dark blonde hair. Same dreams every night. Same wishes every chance. Same cds, same lyrics, same shotty attempt at musical perfection.
I hate this place. I hate everything about it. So why then am i considering staying?
We all know why. We all know why everyone stays. Is it love? or stupidity?
I always said i'd never stay for anyone... especially a boy. but now as i prepare to leave in the summer, i don't want to go.
Sometimes i wish i'd never met him... but still, i believe in fate... i was supposed to meet him for some reason. to love him? for him to change me? to make me a better person? or just to make me realize what i can't have?
I can't understand it... its been 2 years... 2 years we have stuck it out.. never growing apart... actually growing closer, even if not much closer. And we've begin to hang out, and he's agreed to go to a show with me... a band he's never even heard... so tell me my loves, what does that mean? what does it all mean?
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2003 12 November :: 9.32 pm
:: Music: "the no seatbelt song" - brand new
i obviously don't know what i am doing. but i know for sure... no more heavy drinking, no more smoking, no more shots.... he doesn't like those. and i, i am a good girl.
no no no, i can't change for him... can i? i mean i do need to lighten up on the drinking, and definitely no more smoking with the bc.... but shots... they are so much fun... i love keeping up with the guys... i love showing them up. oh well, he is worth a hell of a lot more to me than a little liquor.
all i want is a dance... a kiss... a bond that could last forever. i know its a lot to hope for, but... i believe he is capable of it... and maybe if i pray hard enough and wish upon every 11:11, he will see that its only him... and that i seriously don't want anyone else.. not a single other person.
<3 always and keep on rockin'!
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2003 11 November :: 7.49 pm
:: Mood: scared
:: Music: "wheel" - john mayer
i'm scared about whats going to happen next... so yes, he did say he would go to the something corporate concert with me... and he's never heard the band, but i still don't think that means he likes me. all i want in the whole world is for him to like me.
but i guess i have to keep remembering that i believe in fate and that things will work out how they are supposed to. its just so hard.
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2003 10 November :: 10.27 pm
its only you beautiful, or i don't want anyone... if i can choose... its only you.
so i don't know.
i mean i do know... but i'm confused.
for one, there is dan... he is nice and cute. but way older than me... and i don't really know him. but he's into rock and is learning guitar... he's great. i do like him. but...
then theres the other one. i've liked him for 2 years... and i still do. way more than anything, i'd give my life for him in an instant, thats how crazy he makes me. i want to tell him so bad, but i honestly don't think he feels the same... and we've got a friendship now and i love it. i seriously don't think i can live without him. what do i do?
i know for a fact that dan at least likes me... he told me i was pretty... no one has ever told me that before. we did shots, we danced, it was so much fun... but actually, the whole time i was staring at the other one. leslie calls him denzel... so i guess i could do that. he's my everything. and i'm going to give up anything i could ever have with dan just because of the infinitely minute chance that something could ever happen with denzel. so call me stupid... but its only him or i don't want anyone...
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2003 3 November :: 11.57 pm
:: Music: the postal service
"loud music is only good if its techno, i get down to that shit"
comment on that one biyatch.
anywho... this weekend fucking rocked my socks hXc. friday i drove the 2.5 hours, it only took me 2 by the way. when i got there we went to walmart and bought some food and shit. then we got ready for the costume party. we went to midway, w/ 3000 people and got fucking drunk. then we went and called chino.. then we went to ihop. saturday we walked around campus and went to the mall. saturday night we went to music cafe which is a bar. we got served. pints. it was so rad. then we went to the sae haunted house, where they played kernkraft 400, so i said the above quote that was originally stated by my brother. it was magical. then sunday we went to walmart again and then dicked around town and around campus and then i drove back. it was so nice to get away from here and not have to worry about impressions and certain someones, even tho he was on my mind while bumpin to the techno friday night with the green lights and cage dancers. it was fun tho, and i'd do it again in a heart beat. lara is really cool too btw. can't wait to go back and actually to go off on my own. well that is all for now.
<3 always and keep rockin.
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