Jason is one of my favorite people.. ever.
Me: well i learned yesterday and today that i am in general a flawed person .. according to a few.. and that i will never had a real relationship in my life because i am flawed and i thought that sucked pretty much
jason: omg, you know what? forget them, you dont need them
Jason: dotn let them bother you, YOU ARE NOT FLAWED
Jason: trust me
Me: but i am!! i mean its obvious .. its like some sort of personality defect.. accoridng to others.. because i can get really nervous about things and apparantly thats not normal and blah etc
Jason: everybody gets nervous, i get nervous allthe time, like, people do alot, its not a personality defect, if it wasnt for people getting nervous, what would be so great about performing or giving a speech? whats good about those kind of things is it gives people ways to overcome their nervousness
Jason: like, everyone gets nervous
Me: exactly.. but apparantly it is a problem
Jason: its not, people who happen to think that it is a defect are wrong, flat out wrong, dont listen to them
Me: i would not listen to them usually but i think it just explains a lot i mean like why things are the way they are you know
Jason: things are the way they are because they are, not you. Trust me, you are a very good, special person. Who are they? Its their fault for making you feel this way and they should be ashamed of themselves. Dont ever think you are the problem or that being nervous is a problem

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