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allyson (profile) wrote,
on 9-14-2004 at 8:37pm
4: love is not a feeling
4: feelings change every day
4: love is a comitment
AllisonILeBel: that's.. very touching
AllisonILeBel: that statement
4: it means you consider someone else more important than yourself
4: more than your life
AllisonILeBel: right
4: or your own preferences
4: thats how marriages work
4: both parties believe that
4: and work hard to stay on target
4: and there are feelings attatched to the comitment
4: but they're not the primary thing
AllisonILeBel: Wow, you understand things so well, and can put them in to words great
4: i have thought about this a lot
AllisonILeBel: I have but.. I can never organize my thoughts
4: i really dont want to have feelings for someone and then have them change
4: because i know they will
AllisonILeBel: yeah... it's kind of scary to me
4: oh totally
AllisonILeBel: yeah
4: one of the most frightening things ever
AllisonILeBel: I would agree with that definatly
4: because in a lifelong relationship you're waking up every morning saying "i love you and i hope you love me to"
4: and there's always a chance the person says no
4: you are trusting your life to another person
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skife

09-14-04 10:14pm

who is "4" ?

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allyson

Re:, 09-15-04 6:12pm

a friend of mine from detroit.

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