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ears (profile) wrote,
on 12-13-2004 at 5:47pm
Current mood: Fucked
Subject: What has happened to this group?

I remember days of smiles and laughter. Just hanging around the group made it feel like warm, spring days. Even in the middle of winter. When a friend had a problem we helped each other. We were a team. We were friends. When I was having problems with my mom and moved out, 2 people were there for me. 2. Only one of them is in the group. Kyle was there in a time of need for me. I can't thank him enough for that. I feel like I owe him my life. Thanks Kyle.

Now everyone seems so cold. Everyone is always depressed and has problems. Well guess what??? That's life. You need to get over the minor stuff. If you are having problems, talk to someone about it. Don't hold it in and mope around all of the time. Friends are here for a reason. To be there for each other. I remember when people used to get hugs without having to ask for it. We used to give hugs, never mind who you are, or who you dated or, who you have feelings for. I think that's why I've strayed away from the group. It makes me sick and unnerved to see what it has become.
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angel_bob

12-13-04 6:16pm

I think you're on crack and you need to lay off the drugs.

I didn't think anything is going on that anyone needs to be worried about. We all have our little stuff but as a group, the thing you seem most concerned about, I think we're pretty good.

In fact, I'm better friends with some people now than I've ever been before.

So, I think you need to stop freaking out and just do. I don't think anything is wrong.

And I have no idea what the hell those last three sentences are about.

Unless others are seeing something I'm not aware of ... ?

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threshershark

Re:, 12-13-04 6:59pm

Oh pshaw Rachel. I think you're the one that needs to lay off the crack, not to mention the ever growing string of guys you're leading on.

oooo, ouch!! :D

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angel_bob

Re: Re:, 12-13-04 7:26pm

That was either really stupid or really dumb and I'm not sure which.

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threshershark

Re: Re: Re:, 12-13-04 8:15pm

Hmm, maybe I wasn't clear, then. But, some things are best left unsaid.

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angel_bob

12-13-04 9:20pm

Then why'd you start?

Finish it if you're going to start it.

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threshershark

Re:, 12-14-04 9:49pm

Eh, maybe we could talk about it in person sometime? Everyone sounds so much angrier in typing.

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threshershark

12-13-04 6:56pm

Yeah, I kinda agree with ya Tom, although I guess such things are inevitable for cliques. And hey, I was happy to do that for you, it's great to have friends over (we gotta hang out again sometime soon).

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pamela

12-13-04 7:43pm

yeah, i agree. i used to be more in the group too. like when i was in nineth grade then some stuff happened and i felt like yeah. so yeah, i miss how the group used to be, it has changed a lot, but it was bound to happen and will more likely change in the future.

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deloric

12-13-04 9:13pm

i never liked groups in the first place.
I dont think I was ever really part of it. And that makes me glad.

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angel_bob

12-13-04 9:17pm

And you cannot say we were never there for you. We're not mind readers, I knew you moved out when it happened. I never knew it was coming or stuff was going on.

We can't read your mind. We can't be your friends unless you be ours.

It's a two-way street.

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ears

Re:, 12-13-04 9:27pm

You weren't there for me. You knew yet never bothered to say anything or console me. This shit isn't about me. It's about the group and its being depressed and cold all the time.

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Lavitz1985

12-13-04 9:33pm

If it makes you feel any better Tom, I'm rather excluded much of the time from things. Also, Kyle, I completely agree with your comments above, and I think I have some idea where you were going with that.

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angel_bob

Re: Re:, 12-14-04 6:16am

What was I supposed to say? "Hey Tom, Ben said you moved out, sup with that?"

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ears

Re: Re: Re:, 12-14-04 2:31pm

Yes. Anything. It would've helped to know that I had a friend who cared enough to talk to me.

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shinigami

12-14-04 2:30pm

I'm sorry I couldn't be there to help you out Tom, I really would have liked to help. But if you do need anything at all you can try and talk to me if you want. I'll be around for a while, like for a month. Send me an email or give me a call. If you don't know either of them, here's my email to get my phone number because I don't feel like putting it up: angelladyrinoa@hotmail.com

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ears

Re:, 12-14-04 9:24pm

That means more to me than you'll ever know. Thank you.

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sike-a-delic_grasshopper

12-14-04 3:30pm

I didn't know you moved out till long after the fact cuz no one bothered to tell me. I can't console you for things I don't know about. Other than that, I think everyone's just waiting to get the fuck out high school. I am, at least. So if I seem distant it's because I simply can't stand this stupid school any longer and am trying to figure out how to deal with it.

And you're right, the group has changed, just like everything else. And as far as caring for each other, it's gotten better, not worse. At least as far as I can tell.

I'm sorry you feel this way.

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ears

Re:, 12-14-04 9:25pm

It may have gotten better but I feel like I've been excluded from what I was once in.

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