03-31-05 2:19pm

Wow, that almost made me cry. Seriously though that was touching, I think I have cried at every wedding I have been too even my ex-g/f's cousins (lol i didnt even know them), but I don't think I did at my uncle Tony's second marriage because I couldn't place myself into his shoes, just to old.

I know I'm gonna cry at my wedding, but since I don't really want to take that plunge I don't think I will. =P

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Re:, 03-31-05 2:26pm

It's a good thing. I'm just not the crying type, I don't cry at movies and at weddings and at funerals, it's just not my style, so this was a shocker. I wish I could cry, when appropriate, you know?

I'm definately gonna cry at my own wedding, throwing away all that single life joy, saying goodbye to the freedom of hoo-hah. Dang, anyone could get teary eyed just thinking about it.

But marriage is for romantics, not for folk like us eh?

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Re: Re:, 03-31-05 5:25pm

I think you both are romantics. I mean, the only reason you're so against marriage is because you're afraid...and shit, I'd be afraid too if I grew up with your parents, Fay. But honestly, I think that will only make you want to hold on more to the person who makes you happiest. I mean, don't the bad times make the good times that much better? If anything, you're better equipped than the rest of us to decide what is real and what isn't.

I don't cry much either, getting irrationally angry is so much easier than crying for me. *shrugs* I cry at the end of sports games when I see teammates hugging each other and coaches getting choked up. I cried when my coach left my school. I cried once talking about God, and sometimes I cry when I talk about money.

But I don't cry at all weddings. Only if the couple has written their own vows. It's the most interesting part of the wedding, to me. Everything else seems like such a waste. I love hearing why someone picked one person out of the entire world to spend the rest of their life with...ya know?

This turned out to be an entry of a comment, but oh well, I feel better now, thanks for writing!

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Re: Re: Re:, 04-01-05 3:21am

Uh-oh. Danielle has spoken.

I don't know, judging from my relationship history, I don't think I'm very well suited to holding on to the people that love me, let alone holding on the the people I love.

I wish people wrote vows and things here. It sounds like the most interesting part of the wedding.

Thank you for sharing your soft spots with us! *hugs* You're so great.

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Re: Re: Re: Re:, 04-01-05 8:42am

Haha you're such a punk. Thanks for mocking me and making me sound like some fascist dictator.

I'm allowed to be an optimist if I want!

Yeah, when you get married, write your vows here.

*holds face in hand* This wasn't about my soft spots.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:, 04-01-05 1:53pm

ooooooh, danielle has soft spots. dum dum duuuuuuuuuum...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:, 04-01-05 3:08pm

yeah I was a mess this week, after the girls and guys made it to Final Four, you shoulda seen me

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toughies, huh?, 04-02-05 12:25am

*sigh*

could you girls please keep the grunting competition down? i'm trying to get some rest, here.

*re-applies cucumbers to his eyes*

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